teoee, I agree, I'm quite destructive.
sometimes, what you say can hurt others so much,
yet you will never realise.
words, are not just words.
anything that's said carries some significance.
words, can cheer us up,
but can bring us down even more.
it's not until recently that I realise, words are not easy to come by.
do not ever, ever take them for granted.
for eg.
two friends were happily talking about something one day, but something happened (anything at all) that causes them to fall out. one wishes to reconcile with the other, but the other refuses to. it's not until then that she realises, she should have cherished the times, the days, the words they had with each other more, rather than taking them for granted and thinking that it'll be the way it is all the time.
if words are only words, what do humans have the ability to speak and not animals. there must be a reason why.
sometimes, I can wish for the most ridiculous things that amazes even myself.